Sunday, November 02, 2008
Too much of a good thing.
Since Oliver almost got kidnapped (well, it felt that way anyway) we've been discussing a little "stranger danger" with our kids. I always kind of shy away from that talk because I think it is hard to help them have a healthy sense of safety while recognizing when they aren't really in danger. Just the other day, I noticed that our new neighbors' little boy came home to an empty house. He walked up, knocked on the door, and when no one answered, went to sit on the front step. I was a little concerned because I haven't ever seen that happen before. Like I said, they just moved in. I walked across the street and innocently asked if he would like to use my phone to call his mom and see if she was on her way. He initially looked at me, then turned his head as I continued talking. Like an idiot, I didn't let this deter me. I said, "I think you know my daughter Emmaline. I live right across the street." Handing him my cell phone, I continued, "You're welcome to use my phone to make sure everything is okay." He just ignored me so I said, "Sorry. Didn't mean to scare you, I was just trying to help." So much for my stint as a Good Samaritan.
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I have done things like that before, it makes me so sad to think that because I mean no harm, just the opposite, I should be able to do something for them, and there isn't anything that you can do.
I was going to say exactly what Judy said in her comment. As far as "stranger danger" I really liked Ed Smart's radkids website. They're good at not making it scary, its more about kid power. Also, thanks for your comment about Carter's weird head shaking thing. I did try it and I think you're right - mystery solved!
Molly, our school does the RADkids program as part of PE...the kids do seem to be empowered by it.
I have always thought the most important part of the stranger danger talk is to be sure that the kids understand that almost everyone wants them to be safe and happy and will be willing to protect them. If they are in a situation where they are uncomfortable their best chance is to get the attention of anyone and ask them for help.
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